Para o meu amor sempre!!!
Um dia você aprende… – Willian Sheakespeare
Depois de algum tempo você aprende a diferença, a sutil diferença entre dar a mão e acorrentar uma alma. E você aprende que amar não significa apoiar-se, e que companhia nem sempre significa segurança ou proximidade. E começa aprender que beijos não são contratos, tampouco promessas de amor eterno. Começa a aceitar suas derrotas com a cabeça erguida e olhos radiantes, com a graça de um adulto – e não com a tristeza de uma criança. E aprende a construir todas as suas estradas no hoje, pois o terreno do amanhã é incerto demais para os planos, ao passo que o futuro tem o costume de cair em meio ao vão.
Depois de um tempo você aprende que o sol pode queimar se ficarmos expostos a ele durante muito tempo. E aprende que não importa o quanto você se importe: algumas pessoas simplesmente não se importam… E aceita que não importa o quão boa seja uma pessoa, ela vai ferí-lo de vez em quando e, por isto, você precisa estar sempre disposto a pedoá-la.
Aprende que falar pode aliviar dores emocionais. Descobre que se leva um certo tempo para construir confiança e apenas alguns segundos para destruí-la; e que você, em um instante, pode fazer coisas das quais se arrependerá para o resto da vida. Aprende que verdadeiras amizades continuam a crescer mesmo a longas distâncias, e que, de fato, os bons e verdadeiros amigos foram a nossa própria família que nos permitiu conhecer. Aprende que não temos que mudar de amigos: se compreendermos que os amigos mudam (assim como você), perceberá que seu melhor amigo e você podem fazer qualquer coisa, ou até coisa alguma, tendo, assim mesmo, bons momentos juntos.
Descobre que as pessoas com quem você mais se importa na vida são tomadas de você muito cedo, ou muito depressa. Por isso, sempre devemos deixar as pessoas que verdadeiramente amamos com palavras brandas, amorosas, pois cada instante que passa carrega a possibilidade de ser a última vez que as veremos; aprende que as circunstâncias e os ambientes possuem influência sobre nós, mas somente nós somos responsáveis por nós mesmos; começa a compreender que não se deve comparar-se com os outros, mas com o melhor que se pode ser.
Descobre que se leva muito tempo para se tornar a pessoa que se deseja tornar, e que o tempo é curto. Aprende que não importa até o ponto onde já chegamos, mas para onde estamos, de fato, indo – mas, se você não sabe para onde está indo, qualquer lugar servirá.
Aprende que: ou você controla seus atos e temperamento, ou acabará escravo de si mesmo, pois eles acabarão por controlá-lo; e que ser flexível não significa ser fraco ou não ter personalidade, pois não importa o quão delicada ou frágil seja uma situação, sempre existem dois lados a serem considerados, ou analisados.
Aprende que heróis são pessoas que foram suficientemente corajosas para fazer o que era necessário fazer, enfrentando as conseqüências de seus atos. Aprende que paciência requer muita persistência e prática. Descobre que, algumas vezes, a pessoa que você espera que o chute quando você cai, poderá ser uma das poucas que o ajudará a levantar-se. (…) Aprende que não importa em quantos pedaços o seu coração foi partido: simplesmente o mundo não irá parar para que você possa consertá-lo. Aprende que o tempo não é algo que possa voltar atrás. Portanto, plante você mesmo seu jardim e decore sua alma – ao invés de esperar eternamente que alguém lhe traga flores. E você aprende que, realmente, tudo pode suportar; que realmente é forte e que pode ir muito mais longe – mesmo após ter pensado não ser capaz. E que realmente a vida tem seu valor, e, você, o seu próprio e inquestionável valor perante a vida.
Willian Shakespeare
One day you learn ... - William Shakespeare
After awhile you learn the difference, the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love does not mean leaning and company does not always mean security or proximity. And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts, nor promises of eternal love. Begin to accept your defeats with your head up and eyes radiant with the grace of an adult - and not the grief of a child. And learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans, while the future has a habit of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that the sun can burn if we're exposed to it for a long time. And you learn that no matter how much you care, some people just do not care ... And you accept that no matter how good a person, it will hurt you from time to time and, therefore, you must always be willing to pedo it.
You learn that talking can relieve emotional pain. Discover that it takes a while to build trust and only seconds to destroy it, and you in a moment, can do things which you will regret for the rest of life.He learns that true friendship continues to grow, even over long distances, and, in fact, the good and true friends were our own family that allowed us to know. Learn how we do not have to change friends, if we understand that friends change (like you), you realize that your best friend and you can do anything, or even anything, and, anyway, good times together.
He discovers that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon, or too fast. Therefore, we should always let the people who truly love him with soft words and loving, because every moment that passes carries the possibility of being the last time that we will see, learn that the circumstances and environments have influence on us, but we are only responsible for ourselves, begin to realize that you should not compare yourself with others, but the best you can be.
Discover that it takes a long time to become the person you wish to make, and that time is short. He learns that no matter to the point where we have come, but where we are, in fact, going - but if you do not know where you're going, anywhere will do.
You learn that either you control your actions and temperament, or will a slave of himself, because they will eventually control it, and that being flexible does not mean being weak or have no personality, for no matter how delicate or fragile the situation is , there are always two sides to be considered or analyzed.
You learn that heroes are people who were courageous enough to do what was needed, facing the consequences of their actions.You learn that patience requires a lot of persistence and practice.He discovers that sometimes the person you expect to kick you when you fall, you may be one of the few that will help you get up.(...) He learns that no matter how many pieces your heart has been broken: the world simply will not stop so you can fix it. You learn that time is not something that can go back. So plant your own garden and decorate your soul - rather than wait forever for someone to bring flowers. And you learn that, actually, it can support, that is really strong and can go much further - even after not being able to have thought. And that life really has its value, and you, your own unquestionable value in life.
William Sheakespeare
After awhile you learn the difference, the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love does not mean leaning and company does not always mean security or proximity. And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts, nor promises of eternal love. Begin to accept your defeats with your head up and eyes radiant with the grace of an adult - and not the grief of a child. And learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans, while the future has a habit of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that the sun can burn if we're exposed to it for a long time. And you learn that no matter how much you care, some people just do not care ... And you accept that no matter how good a person, it will hurt you from time to time and, therefore, you must always be willing to pedo it.
You learn that talking can relieve emotional pain. Discover that it takes a while to build trust and only seconds to destroy it, and you in a moment, can do things which you will regret for the rest of life.He learns that true friendship continues to grow, even over long distances, and, in fact, the good and true friends were our own family that allowed us to know. Learn how we do not have to change friends, if we understand that friends change (like you), you realize that your best friend and you can do anything, or even anything, and, anyway, good times together.
He discovers that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon, or too fast. Therefore, we should always let the people who truly love him with soft words and loving, because every moment that passes carries the possibility of being the last time that we will see, learn that the circumstances and environments have influence on us, but we are only responsible for ourselves, begin to realize that you should not compare yourself with others, but the best you can be.
Discover that it takes a long time to become the person you wish to make, and that time is short. He learns that no matter to the point where we have come, but where we are, in fact, going - but if you do not know where you're going, anywhere will do.
You learn that either you control your actions and temperament, or will a slave of himself, because they will eventually control it, and that being flexible does not mean being weak or have no personality, for no matter how delicate or fragile the situation is , there are always two sides to be considered or analyzed.
You learn that heroes are people who were courageous enough to do what was needed, facing the consequences of their actions.You learn that patience requires a lot of persistence and practice.He discovers that sometimes the person you expect to kick you when you fall, you may be one of the few that will help you get up.(...) He learns that no matter how many pieces your heart has been broken: the world simply will not stop so you can fix it. You learn that time is not something that can go back. So plant your own garden and decorate your soul - rather than wait forever for someone to bring flowers. And you learn that, actually, it can support, that is really strong and can go much further - even after not being able to have thought. And that life really has its value, and you, your own unquestionable value in life.
William Sheakespeare
